Shelter
Is there a safe place?

Help! Just Get Me Outta Here!

If you are in danger you have a choice to make. You have instincts and something has brought you here. This area was created to give you information for making a choice and for developing a plan. Your responsibility is in making the right choice for you and only you can decide what that choice is.

  • Answering the questions here will help you determine if you are in danger: Check-List.
  • What are the red flags in an abusive relationship? Red Flags.
  • Does the relationship you are in have healthy boundaries established? Your Rights.
    • Do you have a plan if the violence escalates? Safety Plan.
    • Following are links to each state; Just click on the state name and you will be directed to your state shelters information.

    • Shelters

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      How to be Prepared!

      • Is there a national hotline I can call at any time? Yes, here is the link! National Domestic Violence Hotline.
      • Are you prepared to go at a moments notice? Want a list of what is good to have ready, just in case?: Be Prepared.
      • Internet Safety: follow the link to learn how to protect yourself, and not leave a trace you are seeking info here or elsewhere: Internet Safety.


      • your not alone


        It doesn't matter what stage you are at in your life making decisions. You will find women from different backgrounds with different experiences, we only ask that you let others make their own choices. What we can do is to help others make informed choices and share our own experiences and what we do know. What we cannot do is live someone else's life for them, and the truth is, what choices we make we have to live out.
        The point is - to live . . .



      Credits

      Thanks for the template used here to help build this site and make it presentable!

      • All credit for the layout, graphics and art of this design goes to: Nonvideri Designs.